This photo of Margie just looks terribly old, but still very precious. She'll be two in less than six months! Margie is a delight, especially now that most of her teeth are in. We had a long, rough winter, and yet it is all fleeting when I think of how much she has changed in that time and how fast it seems to have gone. Of all the girls, I call Margie the "explainer." Piper at this age was quiet and contemplative, Graci was mischievous and a "scolder." Margie will have a "conversation" with just about anyone. She loves to do imitative play, especially if it involves a play kitchen. Just the other day the missionaries were over for dinner. After dinner, she had a toy skillet and casserole dish and was feeding them as if she were the cook. They would make slurping sounds and hand the dishes back to her and she would pretend to slurp out of the dishes as well. One of her favorite toys are mega blocks. We spent a lot of time building towers this winter and she's pretty capable on her own now. I am so excited for the warmer weather because Margie can entertain herself at the park easily. I am so thankful for each child and all of their unique personalities!
Monday, March 31, 2014
Piper
Piper is an easy-going, caring, and smart little girl. She has recently been delving into crafts. My friend, Jenny, is all about patiently teaching children things like sewing and knitting. Piper's latest favorite is the circular loom (Mommy at least had the sense to buy it for her :). She is still a voracious reader. Grandma Ecker introduced her to the Boxcar Children books a few weeks ago and she is hooked!! Margie loves Piper dearly and will go to Piper for hugs and comfort if Mommy is not readily available. Soccer has just started up again and Piper is learning so quickly with Daddy as her coach. Daddy has also been teaching her to play chess. One of these days Graci will be mature enough to learn and then we'll really have some fierce competition around here.
Piper will be turning seven this summer. I noticed my blogger profile photo has a picture of Piper and me together when she was smaller than Margie. How the time flies! A few months ago I was in Wal-Mart, a rare but sometimes necessary occurrence, when I spotted a tall woman with two tall daughters with her and felt like I was looking through a portal into my future and it had me really excited. Piper teaches me daily and I know she will continue to be an example to us all.
Saturday, January 18, 2014
The Incident
Writing the previous post about Graci reminded me of her misadventure with an accidentally swallowed quarter this last fall. Let me begin with a little background knowledge:
Graci is a mouth prodder. Blankets, toys, surprisingly not fingers, sticks, rocks, you name it--the kid puts it in her mouth. She has always been this way. I think it stems from the fact that she never used a binky and thus has been trying to find a replacement ever since. Peter's sister, Allyson, works with special needs children and informed me that if she has the behavior past age three there is really nothing I can do. I eased up from that point and only got on to her when it was something dangerous in her mouth, which actually happened quite often.
The incident with the quarter began this fall. We had just put the girls to bed when we heard them yelling. We went upstairs to find Graci hunched over, vomiting. Weird! She had been perfectly fine not ten minutes before and there she was with this terrified look on her face. I ran downstairs for some towels and when I returned Peter said Graci had been mumbling about how she couldn't find her quarter. It took me a couple seconds before I figured out what she meant. She had put the quarter in her mouth and somehow managed to swallow it. I immediately began fighting conflicting emotions. Shock: Are you KIDDING me? We go over this EVERY DAY! Do not put things in your mouth! Empathy: Poor girl! She is so scared. Fear: How do we get it out? What if she stops breathing? Panic: Where do we go? What do we do?
I of course called Peter's sister, Meredith, who calmed me as she always does by reminding me that Graci is still breathing, but we would infact need to take her to the ER to determine how to get the quarter out if she was not going to be able to vomit it out. I hauled Graci downstairs, put on her coat and boots, and went to the local hospital. Poor thing was just plain woozy and sore. X-rays revealed the quarter stuck just at the base of her neck. The doctor informed us that typically incidents like this are handled at Children's Mercy hospital...in Kansas City. After some more vomiting, a little sleep, and no pain meds, we headed by ambulance to KC. A first for both of us!
Once we arrived I was kind of amused to find out that this was the third or fourth quarter extraction witnessed by the resident that helped us who had only been there a month! We had some more xrays taken, some more vomiting, and found that the quarter had not moved. If it had, they would have sent us home!! Ah! The next step was getting it out. The plan was to drop a balloon down her throat below the quarter, blow up the balloon, and get her to spit the quarter out. (after seeing her post-quarter extraction I learned it also involved some yucky black liquid) They did not use anesthesia as this could cause an even greater risk since she has never had it and we didn't know if she might have a reaction to it. Basically they held her down and got the job done. I was in a waiting room a hallway and a couple sets of doors away and heard her shriek, but it was over rather quickly and thankfully she didn't reswallow the quarter. She was so brave!
We slept in our room until Peter was able to come pick us up the next morning. We went to his parents and they fed us breakfast and patted our backs while we related the scary events. They are experts in the field of childhood emergencies and were kind to not rub in Peter passing on some dangerous curiosity personality traits to Graci.
And as for putting things in her mouth? Graci took about a two week hiatus before resuming her oral fixation activities :)
Graci is a mouth prodder. Blankets, toys, surprisingly not fingers, sticks, rocks, you name it--the kid puts it in her mouth. She has always been this way. I think it stems from the fact that she never used a binky and thus has been trying to find a replacement ever since. Peter's sister, Allyson, works with special needs children and informed me that if she has the behavior past age three there is really nothing I can do. I eased up from that point and only got on to her when it was something dangerous in her mouth, which actually happened quite often.
The incident with the quarter began this fall. We had just put the girls to bed when we heard them yelling. We went upstairs to find Graci hunched over, vomiting. Weird! She had been perfectly fine not ten minutes before and there she was with this terrified look on her face. I ran downstairs for some towels and when I returned Peter said Graci had been mumbling about how she couldn't find her quarter. It took me a couple seconds before I figured out what she meant. She had put the quarter in her mouth and somehow managed to swallow it. I immediately began fighting conflicting emotions. Shock: Are you KIDDING me? We go over this EVERY DAY! Do not put things in your mouth! Empathy: Poor girl! She is so scared. Fear: How do we get it out? What if she stops breathing? Panic: Where do we go? What do we do?
I of course called Peter's sister, Meredith, who calmed me as she always does by reminding me that Graci is still breathing, but we would infact need to take her to the ER to determine how to get the quarter out if she was not going to be able to vomit it out. I hauled Graci downstairs, put on her coat and boots, and went to the local hospital. Poor thing was just plain woozy and sore. X-rays revealed the quarter stuck just at the base of her neck. The doctor informed us that typically incidents like this are handled at Children's Mercy hospital...in Kansas City. After some more vomiting, a little sleep, and no pain meds, we headed by ambulance to KC. A first for both of us!
Once we arrived I was kind of amused to find out that this was the third or fourth quarter extraction witnessed by the resident that helped us who had only been there a month! We had some more xrays taken, some more vomiting, and found that the quarter had not moved. If it had, they would have sent us home!! Ah! The next step was getting it out. The plan was to drop a balloon down her throat below the quarter, blow up the balloon, and get her to spit the quarter out. (after seeing her post-quarter extraction I learned it also involved some yucky black liquid) They did not use anesthesia as this could cause an even greater risk since she has never had it and we didn't know if she might have a reaction to it. Basically they held her down and got the job done. I was in a waiting room a hallway and a couple sets of doors away and heard her shriek, but it was over rather quickly and thankfully she didn't reswallow the quarter. She was so brave!
We slept in our room until Peter was able to come pick us up the next morning. We went to his parents and they fed us breakfast and patted our backs while we related the scary events. They are experts in the field of childhood emergencies and were kind to not rub in Peter passing on some dangerous curiosity personality traits to Graci.
And as for putting things in her mouth? Graci took about a two week hiatus before resuming her oral fixation activities :)
Graci
Hello, Old Friend!
Ah, my blog! How I have missed having a chance to update you! Here we are, girls in bed, husband at a youth activity, and me with time to update!
I noticed my last post was in September and there is good reason for that! We have been swamped around here! But as I always say, better busy than bored.
This fall was full of fun activities:
5 Let's Play Music classes for Annah to teach
2 1/2 children to homeschool
Margie learned how to walk
New adventures in pressure canning
Peter working full time
Peter taking two Masters classes
Peter became the YM president
Peter was Piper's soccer coach
And this semester we will add...
Annah teaching oils classes
Monthly temple attendance
Margie running
Graci doing dance class
But subtract pressure canning like mad and this all might be doable!
Whew! I'm excited :)
I noticed my last post was in September and there is good reason for that! We have been swamped around here! But as I always say, better busy than bored.
This fall was full of fun activities:
5 Let's Play Music classes for Annah to teach
2 1/2 children to homeschool
Margie learned how to walk
New adventures in pressure canning
Peter working full time
Peter taking two Masters classes
Peter became the YM president
Peter was Piper's soccer coach
And this semester we will add...
Annah teaching oils classes
Monthly temple attendance
Margie running
Graci doing dance class
But subtract pressure canning like mad and this all might be doable!
Whew! I'm excited :)
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